In absence of a goal in life, you will not know
what to do.
It is important to understand the importance of
When you try to think about what is the mission
or purpose of your life, you may not get a clear
picture of it. We lack clarity and intelligence
for finding our real purpose in life.
It is possible that you may have many goals in
your life and may not be able to identify the
real one, specific to you. How to bring that one
thought out of your mind that will lead you to
success. What will happen if you are not able to
relate to your dreams? What is next?
Your connection with reality may be the
foundation of your purpose. Not having decided
purpose in life does not mean you do not have
one. It is not something you will just wake up
to, one day. You have to work hard to determine
it. You may not have the option of choosing it,
as you have many choices. Many of the choices may
not even be genuine.
While targeting your purpose you will have to
exhibit the ability to perceive it. You need
create a method to achieve your purpose, steps
that will lead you to your purpose of life. These
methods and processes get you the answer for you
question and make you say, “This is it!”
Once you determine your goal, you work towards
achieving it passionately. So the first step is
to go with your emotional intelligence because it
will help you identify your purpose correctly.
Here is how you go about it:
1.You need something to write down, like a piece
of paper or word processor in your computer.
2.At the top of the page jot down, “What is the
real purpose of my life?
3.Whatever answer comes to your mind write it
down. It may be a short phrase and not a properly
framed sentence as an answer.
4.Keep on repeating step three, until you have
written everything you can think of on finding
purpose of your life.
This is what you have been struggling to find.
Your profession will not matter. To some this may
make sense and others may find it to be
senseless. The purpose of our life may not be
clear to us because of social training. Your
unconscious and conscious mind will send false
messages. However, once you have found the true
purpose, you feel like it has come from the inner
Applying logic and reasoning to find out what
your views on life are is another method.
The other way is to use logic and reason for your
situation. It will be easy if you are more
logical in your thoughts.
Apply your total life experience to find out your
real purpose in life. Try to understand where you
stand in your present reality.
This is a very simple technique to follow and
hence easy to miss. What you are doing is,
understanding your view on your approach of life
and turning those into what you see for yourself.
Where you stand in your present interpretation on
life, will help you discover your goal, so you
need to find out. Your reality represents
yourself and this helps you understand your
purpose of life.
The ideas you have about life makes up your
personality, if you have a negative attitude
towards life that means you are negative person.
When you are clear about your ideas, you will
find a purpose in life which is achievable and
reasonable. It is like a hologram. When you cut a
piece of it, the entire picture is still in the
smaller piece. You are like a piece and the whole
of the hologram is reality. You will find that
something is wrong when you have wrong ideas
about yourself in your mind so this technique
will uncover what problems you have and show you
These techniques will help you find out your
purpose and to know where to go from there. If
you have a healthy outlook, you will get results
by applying the techniques. You will find out
that the rational and emotional intelligence will
point out to your purpose of life in different
ways but they will be saying the same thing.
In the next lesson we will take a look at how you
can get rid of negativity in your life.